*opinionated and
not politically correct babbling below.. you've been warned*
**remember when i
used to write long posts like this with disclaimers? **

so i realized that i seldom mention marriage on this here blog.. when it is really a topic that i feel so strongly about. weddings are awesome, and i love them. but marriage is heavy and complex, grueling, but outrageously
rewarding (which is most of what i can say, having no
actual experience whatsoever). i've come upon a lot of resources in the last year(ish).. random articles, books, etc about marriage that have peaked my interest so i read them. which is probably awesome because i sooo long for my clients and my friends and family to have relationships that endure;
unbreakable covenants of love. Jesus calls his own- his church- his 'body' and his 'bride'. the bible starts with a marriage... and also ends with a marriage. over and over in God's word his love for his creation is compared to a husband and his wife... his love and protection and longing and righteous anger and jealousy of our hearts, etc etc etc are so impressed in the pages of scripture, that the zeal of
his love for us is undeniable. i had heard this phrase before... "what if God designed marriage to make us more holy than to make us happy?" i googled it (oh i love google so much) and realized its part of the title of a book (yay for book number 9,456,7645,23434 that i want to read sometime soon) called 'sacred marriage'. the description says "...this title expresses a radical thought for today's marriages! chapter by chapter, discover how marriage works to develop Christlike character- forgiveness, love, respect, perseverance,- in each of you..." I realize from different things i've been reading about destroyed marriages and affairs and etc etc etc, that marriage kind of could sound horrible. working in the wedding industry, i see all the frills and superficial beautiful things about weddings, which is all fun and i dooo love it. but its hard to hold in one hand that view of love with
rose-colored-glasses, and in the other hand see and read about and hear about the
impending doom that seems to await the 'one out of every two marriages' ... and not want to gag in hopelessness. so what the heck am i even getting at here? i think
we need the
mercy and grace of the only one that can help... Jesus, to pour out on marriage and relationships in general. God created marriage, God upholds and honors marriage, God defends marriage. I think that i've been blessed to have such an interesting perspective, working in the industry, but at the same time, miraculously (?) not being disillusioned to the fact that it will be HARD. i think that it will be outrageously rewarding, if we realize that it is
not only for the purpose of being happy, but also being chipped away at, refined, and molded even more into the people we were created to be in Gods image, and showing every day and every second how much more
desperately we need his mercy and grace.. his help in our weakness (run on sentennnnnce). but what more of an
adventure is there then being made into the likeness of the one who
designed love, and feeling his strength
overcome our weakness? if thats what marriage will bring then i'd be into it ;) but Lord have mercy on whoever would want to marry me. LOL!
***cheers to writing on a topic thats way over my head. oh well. its myyy blog***
>>ps theres a new post over at campjoy.tumblr.com. and remember, its not for the faint of heart ;) ;)
<33annajoy